• ℍ𝕂-𝟞𝟝@sopuli.xyz
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    20 hours ago

    I guess the argument is that you don’t want to discount the minority of victims just because of them being a minority.

    It also helps frame conversations as abusers vs victims instead of men vs women, because the latter currently leaves male victims without a voice.

    • tamman2000@lemm.ee
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      20 hours ago

      I used to live upstairs from a couple with DV issues.

      The victim was the 6’+ 200lb+ man in his 20s. The offender was a smaller woman. I felt so sorry for that guy. I’m sure people were reluctant to take him seriously, but she was unhinged when angry. Throwing pots and pans at him, pulling knives, etc…