I through the suspect was her crazy boyfriend who is high rank in a gang. No idea if new information has come around

Just 4 years ago I was on the verge of doing it. Today while still having the recurrent though, I’m doing a lot better. And every single suicidal/depressive people is a different world, so yes, people can have 180° change in less than 6 years.

There is no single rule of thumb to apply here, as much as ignorance may lead you yo believe so.

This is a form of pressure.

Take for example the apartheid in South Africa. The rugby team was not able to participate in some of the world cups. While not the key action that ended apartheid, it did pressure the Government in some way. Not player’s fault, not the spectators fault, not the world cup organization team fault, yet they all got punished in some way.